Hi Lady V , firstly I think you are a great catch and any guy ( even Liam) would be lucky to have you in their life.
Secondly any goals you set i have no doubt you will achieve. Look what you have had to deal with and dealt with it you did.
I'm glad your feeling a bit safer, in my experience, bullies like your H are big on talk but aren't always ready to follow through. A call to the local police re the drive bys might be in order. Never hurts to have documented proof.
The important bit i took from your post was the word happy. Fins, etc will be resolved and hopefully soon, then lady V can have the weight of H off her for good.