Agree with ownit. It’s just stuff. It’s been 2 years and if he wanted it he’d have asked by now. I think people relate to stuff differently. I liked another poster’s suggestion who said he gave his XW a date and time to come get her stuff and whatever she left behind he was free to trash. You have enough work of your own...why should you be packing his stuff too?


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving