Definitely NOT taking the bait on this one. I didn't and am not going to respond to this in any way. When I picked up D, XW was actually there, and I was in a great mood (because I was seeing D!) so as far as she knows she didn't ruin my day.
She can't move more than 50 miles without court approval. Tennessee law. She also can't just take D, since the interim plan is what we originally agreed to. How did this happen? I honestly don't know, TN isnt supposed to grant a divorce without a parenting plan, but the way this happened (she disputed everything at the last second) seems to have created some kind of loophole. We're divorced, but with an interim parenting plan.
Yeah, I think I'm in "poor me" mode, too. I'm working on getting my head out of that space, but it's hard when stuff keeps happening. At this point, OM is thrown in my face often, but not in the "this is who I'm sleeping with" sense (which I could not care less about) but always connected to D.
The funny thing is I accept that they need to have a relationship, but how she's doing it is damn messed up.
