Oh gosh, so sorry it has come to this HaWho. I know we were all hoping the sitch would turn out differently for you and your family. Though I can't help but think that you and your boys are deserving of so much more. You've built a solid life even in the midst of the craziness. With him gone and you free from your marriage contract, I predict that your strength and grace will continue to propel the 3 of your forward while your MLCer will remain stuck.

Regarding finances.... Stay on top of this. I pray pray pray pray that he isn't as sneaky as you're predicting because it just makes the ordeal so much more convoluted. The money my ex siphoned was in the 6 figure range and more things get uncovered about every 10 days. I dont wish this experience on anyone. Hopefully your mlcer has been too loopy to be this crafty.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16