H, good to hear from you! Hear we are again, almost spot on timing wise. I know i'm not the oddball as we all have a strange parallel of some sort. As you know first hand the in house S was hell and I was looking forward to her moving out, when she did(xmas eve!) I felt sad knowing it was most likely the end. I will tell you this, I was very tough the first couple days without my kids and I found myself sitting around playing the woe is me card, very easy to do as I felt overwhelmed with the giant task at hand. It wasn't until I ran into an friend who went through divorce years ago who snapped me out of it, we had a good talk over a couple beers and I came away with a whole new outlook on where I'm at.

With that, I know you are staying busy with GAL but make sure you don't have any down time and let your mind sit stagnant, stay busy with anything even if it's cleaning the house. Stay strong, it does get easier!


Me 47 WW 44
T25 yrs M20
S18 S14 D12
Divorced 3/12/2018