i am so sorry for your dealings with your XW... as a WW, i never flaunted anything good in my life in front of my husband... i agree with Vapo... don't even give your out-of-her-right-mind XW any attention... you are doing things right with your daughter and with your GF... eventually, when you and your GF get to that place, there will be wonderful times with the three of you... and you won't have to flaunt it to your XW, or you won't have to justify it... it will just be... adelante--
