Seems like yours is rushing and mine is slowing things down. The common theme for all is they want it on their timing but it doesn’t have to work that way. You too can make this go as fast or as slow as you want. If you want to be friendly about it just say that this is a significant matter and that you need time to consult a L and think through all of the issues. Don’t let him rush you or push you into something you don’t want. Ask him to put together copies of all financial documents for you and your L to review. If you want to be unfriendly...


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving