Well, he's all over the map. Last night I pointed out son has finals in two weeks and asked if he could wait until afterwards. He wrote and said wait as long as you need. This morning he wants to tell them tonight and be out in 2 weeks, during son's first finals of high school. So selfish.
He is back to agreeing to wait until after the exams IF I take care of the papers today. He has asked me 3 times to do it today. Clearly he is thirsty for OW. I imagine he needs to not be living with his wife for this charming gal. And I know he wants me not to think about any of it.
I have not answered. And advice on how to? He is delusional and thinks this is going to be sown up yesterday. Still has no clue that I intend to talk to my own lawyer.
And KML - I have no idea as he locks his door 24/7. So I need to call the accountant and ask for copies of the last two years worth. The problem is he is super sneaky with money. Like I know he had swapped out a significant amount of cash for gold a while back. I think he's been preparing for this for some time.
Today he told me I am lucky he is giving me more that half. I am not sure I believe this as I believe he could hide assets. And he told he's using a fair lawyer. And now he's squeezing me to sign or he tells the kids sooner. And I have it all on text. His birthday is in a few weeks and something tells me he has plans.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
