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The best news you can deliver is that you're kicking some serious a$$ in life and that you're happy.


Well, I kicked some serious a$$ in the gym this morning does that count smile And I actually am pretty happy outside of this nagging little mosquito bite called my W smile Life is good and as I was sitting on my couch last night, sipping a little bourbon with the fire on watching Netflix in peace it felt good!

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If your W is by your side holding your hand, that will be an added bonus.


Well, I have a ways to go for that if it happens! She is still pretty dug in and is not ready to roll out the red carpet yet for J9.

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Just like your W, I believe that what my W is going through is a lot more about her than me.


Your right, towards the end even our dogs caught some fury. They will truly have to come back because of their love for us as over time everyone will be adjusted to this new lifestyle.

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I feel a lot more detached lately, but thoughts about D are cropping up a lot.


The intensity for me comes and goes which means I am not ready yet. I hate talking to anyone about what is going on outside of on this board because everyone (like 2 to 3 people) tell me to cut bait and move on. she doesn't deserve you. For whatever reason I don't think she is ready either.

Keeping on is getting easier, it is actually starting to get a little comical.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018