Thanks, Morbo. I need to catch up on your sitch.

Jim, that's exactly what I was concerned about, that she was shredding important documents.

So over the weekend, STBXW moved out. I know I waffled back on forth about whether I should be present - I decided it would be smoother for everyone if I wasn't. I was out of town with my sons during the move, as she requested. Upon coming home, things are pretty much as she said they would be. It looks like she even vacuumed before she left (and took the vacuum with her).

I'm not sure how I was expecting to feel about it, but I honestly don't feel much.

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.