You are a rock. When you say you are ready...I believe you!
I’m sorry this is what it is today...but as you say he is quite lost. And frankly, given his behavior there may be relief at some point for the kids but also longing for “a normal” dad, as I have heard it.
I hope for a smooth process for you.
(((HaWho)))
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving