Thank you from saving me from myself. I have said nothing. Her latest epistles are along the lines of: I need more time. Don’t give up on me/us. I love you.
Alas, her words are not consistent with her actions (still sleeping with OM2). How can she expect me to wait on the sidelines while she sleeps with other men?
I am still marching forward with my move out plans. In my heart, I am still a fixer and do wish I could save/rescue her.
Like AndrewP said, I am now the walkaway spouse and part of me feels guilty about that.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
