If you find yourself doing anything (that if your honest with yourself) is to get a reaction from her then stop.
This is exactly what yesterdays evening helped me. I actually was implementing changes with with, with a back-thought of impressing her. I realize it is waste of time now.
No shame in that at all.
Just keep that thought in the back of your mind before not only 'doing' things, but also the things you 'say' also.
You will probably need to watch your behaviors and thoughts now more than at any point in your life. But as we all keep saying it takes time.
My W moved out and it lasted 8 months.
Did all of grovelling etc.. you have done, been called abusive, divorce papers were applied for etc...
We started sating again for 4 months and she moved back home in November and the relationship is 100% different but better.
Im not saying yours will end well... what im saying is it takes time and you will be up and down and spin around... but you will survive and be in a better place at the end. Just have some faith in yourself
