I wish the badge would go away and the loving father would reappear. Unfortunately, he is longggg gone and lectures and intimidation is all he knows now. Totally oblivious.. piss me off. D17 came home crying because of texts from her dad. I asked if she did anything wrong.. She said No. I know she is tellung the truth. I have witnesses to her words. So i asked why she was so upset and she said Dad. I' m afraid of him. I told her to not let his intimidation get to her. In order for him to leave her alone, she should say sorry and drop it. I told her to look at the facts. She did not do anything and therefor has NO REASON to feel guilty.
Ex-h is a pro at making us feel like cr*p for no reason.
I shouldn' t have said this to her tho: " He did the same thing to me. I did not leave, i did not lie, i did not keep secrets, i did not abuse, betrayed and i was not unfaithful. He can think whatever he wants. It would be different if you were in the wrong but you are not so put it to rest. Apologize, say good night and shut off your phone."
Why did i tell her yo apologize? Because ex-h will not end anything uI wish the badge would go away and the loving father would reappear. Unfortunately, he is longggg gone and lectures and intimidation is all he knows now. Totally oblivious.. piss me offntil you put an end to it in his favor. He would go on and on and repeat himself 20 times if he has to.
