The best news you can deliver is that you're kicking some serious a$$ in life and that you're happy. If your W is by your side holding your hand, that will be an added bonus.
Just like your W, I believe that what my W is going through is a lot more about her than me. It will be upto her to figure out whether she wants to come back as a wife and full time parent or not. I feel a lot more detached lately, but thoughts about D are cropping up a lot. Anyways, I'll update my sitch when I can parse through them.