Do whatever your L says is OK on the overtime. I was told to reduce my earnings as much as possible. And it mattered.
Move forward in life as fast as you can for your sake. It's a great compliment to be offered promotion. And often the wayward can go back and claim more cash anyway, an adjustment.
It's also for your kids too and they are 15 and 17. Although in some states I know child support can go to 21 if the child is in further education.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
