That was also ex's love language and he ended up resenting me.
My LL is time spent. And i felt secretly bad that this guy didnt want to spend all his time with me this past week and weekend like he did earlier.
This admittedly makes no sense because i was the one that was busy the prior week. And i do have lots of stuff to do myself. And everything else has been great. And he shows that he likes me. We get along. He bought tickets for us to do sonething months ahead. And we spend reasonable time together considering we are early in our relationship. It seems that weekends i am available are just assumed that we will hang out. And we make time for during the week to get together.
I do feel like i initiate more though. But he once said he can make any times so i just have to let him know when i am free because i am the one with the hectic schedule. But this is making me a bit insecure because he seems to be someone that wants to please so i dont know if im being annoying. Or perhaps he put it in my plate to avoid rejection? (Something he seems to want to avoid)
The dynamic my ex and i had was me demanding that he spend time with me and son. And i am worried about going back there. Amd feel deprived in that way.
I am sensing that i need to back down and stay busy and not rush things or be pushy. But for me to be like that also means i have to withdraw ny interest.
