Well new year comes in the post the news that I am now officially Divorced a free man so to speak

Two years ago I am not sure how I would have reacted ...very different to how I felt when I got the news

I get to have my younger kids with me every other weekend in Devon and I will be arranging to try to see them in between

Love having my older kids living with me lots to do at the new house that still needs sorting but my plan is to start arranging evenings out with the older kids gokart racing and climbing

Looking at booking a holiday a week away with or without my kids don't really mind might book into a tennis holiday always fancied this

Ex W is still cold towards me but I actually can now find myself standing up to her and am not really too worried about her plans

Sure from time to time I think about the past and missing her but it is easier for me to get grip and focus on my new life

Going to try to hang out a bit and see if I can give a bit back to the people here

Take care and remember it is not about achieving your goal it is about maintaing your goal

Ghost


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.