Well, h just gave me divorce papers. He has an apartment in place that he rented last month. Maybe he's had it longer and he's just been lying. He wants me to look over the papers, use the same lawyer and just sign. I know he has found someone and that's why there is a big rush.
He wants to tell the kids tonight. He wanted to tell them alone and then have the three of them come to me to support me?!?!? He says it's no big deal and the kids will be just fine so long as I am not there to hear him tell them. I am telling him I want to be there to support them. What a coward.
He says he is the one who is losing out and we 3 will benefit??? He says he's only doing this because he can't take that room anymore. But he's also said it's been bad for 12 years.
KML or Cali - as you are local, do you have the name of a good lawyer?
Also, I will please take all legal advice anyone can give me.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
