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Re: New LBS dealing with WW Part 4
Joe2017
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01/07/18
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That's interesting she demands a schedule. She can plan her day anyway.
Since she ceased to be your W, your schedule is your business and hers is hers.
Quietly skirt the question.
Let me describe a technique called fogging to you.
Fogging is the art of saying something whilst not really saying anything.
Vis
"That's an interesting idea, I will think on it " (for a sec)
"There may be something in what you say" (but probably not)
"Mmmm, must put some thought into that" (in 2030)
"Interesting, hold that thought" (but I wont)
"It's a possibility" (or not)
"That did occur to me" (but I dismissed it instantly)
"Matches your eyes" (blood shot and staring)
"Great colour on you" (covers up the sick)
"I may plan for that" (likely not)
"I was going to consider my options" (not yours)
"I believe I am busy that night" (My GAL not yours)
"I have some admin to sort on it" (like the Forth Bridge)
"My schedules are up in the air and ever changing" (and even if they weren't I would tell you)
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Now there is deflection
"So you have plans today?"
When she says that's her business
Response is "precisely"
And dodge
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You can turn this into a purpose tactic and observe.
You are doing great.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW
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