Hang in there Coly
It does get better

for each of us I think the situation and timelines May be a bit different
but every situation does have an ending and sometimes the ending changes many times
Just continue to take care of yourself
and do what feels right in the moment

as for now moving forward in your life seems appropriate unless sometimes changes
but I know it hurts and feeling the pain of it all also brings more healing

I know my XH didn't care about his stuff here
He took his motorcycle and some basic clothes
he took odds and ends of items but really nothing
He didn't care about about any of it

I think they are attached to the house and us- but the pull to leave is so strong that they have to go regardless of their fear and pain
I think most have to fully leave b4 they can figure out if it was right
stay strong


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow