Originally Posted By: sandi2
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So some men I have talked to who have gone through this all say the same thing, keep your mouth shut and give her time. I can see now how pressuring her was completely wrong. I am no vet on here but boy every time I see a new post it looks just like mine when I first found this page.

Questions:
At this point do I bring up R talk?


Why at this point?

Because at this point its been nearly 7 months and I want to move on with my life. I know this is something that takes a long time but I am human and I do get a little frustrated.

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I want her to pay her own cell phone bill, how do I ask her?



"Considering the situation, I will no longer be paying for your phone bill".



I suspect she will threaten D again but I am better prepared for this response.


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20