So some men I have talked to who have gone through this all say the same thing, keep your mouth shut and give her time. I can see now how pressuring her was completely wrong. I am no vet on here but boy every time I see a new post it looks just like mine when I first found this page.
Questions: At this point do I bring up R talk?
Why at this point?
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I want her to pay her own cell phone bill, how do I ask her?
"Considering the situation, I will no longer be paying for your phone bill".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!