Gordie #15: closing the cake shop

[Sotto]

Hi Gordie, there seems to be pretty much a consensus on what you shouldn't do here...

I think doing nothing may well be the best plan as Job suggests. She isn't ready to hear what you need. I think it you are silent and continue on with your plans, the penny will truly drop - woah, I've gone too far this time. And I think she needs to feel what it is like to have pushed your H too far and have him not even respond to notes like that.

I truly agree that if she hooks you here, she will just go back to the prior behaviour, safe in her view that status quo is restored.

She isn't baked yet, means just that....not ready and able to be the kind of partner you want and need.

Xx