Not once has she asked or cared for what "I" am doing/feeling.
She started a EA, separated from me, came back, continued EA, moved out, had PA, expressed wanting a D...
And she is telling me I am hurting her. Bizarre-o World.
Exactly! I am so relieved you are beginning to see this... You are doing well, Chris... It takes many LBHs a long time to get this... To see the selfish manipulation... She cheated. She's not sorry... In her bizarro world, you should be apologizing to her... And because of that conditioning, many LBHs actually do beg for forgiveness!
Nota bene: my H had just about zero to do with me for a long time before I came to him and truly asked for forgiveness and reconciliation...
