W: "I think about u alot but my #1 emotion i feel is hurt. I dont think I can continue this. Btw Xmas and the days following, not saying anything, not saying anything on NYE Day (dads anniver). Its just building on top of this hurt I already feel."
I can see this is an emotional reaction on her part, looking for a shoulder to lean on; possibly guilt tripping me and temp checking me.
Can someone help provide (in my sitch) when and when not to validate? This text alone in a vacuum would be a great validation situation. However, bc I am rolling NC/Dark, and set boundaries basically (I will not engage in this R until I have this, that, and the other); do I need to ignore this?
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
