Yeah, there is a lot of baggage from me pushing for sex (or getting emotional and withdrawn when it wasn't there) over the years. I have stopped doing that. We've currently had sex something like twice in the last six months between health issues and the current relationship issues, and I'm not poking at it.
Her love languages are touch and quality time. My difficulty now with our current relationship dynamic is how to approach those. In our last big discussion "blow up" she said I'd been acting desperate for months.
We still make 5-10 minutes to sit together and cuddle to start our day, and I'll touch her affectionately through the day a few times - but I'm also trying to break the pursuer (me) distance (her) dynamic. I feel like these are somewhat at odds with each other.
Me, H-39, W-33 T11, M3 No children Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants" Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well. W moved out 3/18 OM Confirmed 4/1 D Final 9/27/18
