I read a lot of you pushing her to have sex with you as a way of bringing you closer. From my time on here, I’ve learned that women generally think the opposite —> emotional closeness breeds a desire for sexual activity. Men generally think the opposite —> sexual activity will yield a closer emotional connection.
With that in mind, how have you worked to foster an emotional connection over the years? What are your love languages? Have you been speaking in a way that she can understand?
