So, I've gone Dark by and large, for the last 6 months+.Every time we talked she assumed I was trying to emotionally manipulate her or she'd say how she needed to finalize certain things in order to find stability. So I told her I wasn't going to talk About those things right now. She ended up going to Yosemite with her mother for a week and getting a job as a sales associate back in August.

She's sent me a couple messages here and there but nothing too in depth. I reply and make pleasant responses but don't force conversation or drag it out. I did ask if she would like to have dinner after the holidays and she said yes. She mentioned talking about some things like separating the car. Nothing seems to be changing.


Together 7 years
Married 3
Said she was taking long way home late January
Left to get some space 2/19/17
BD 3/1/17 ILYB