After putting my head in to all this marriage/relationship/divorce info that is out there, I would ask how do you get someone to realize that love is a choice. Mainly people seem to think that love is a feeling and either it is there or it isn't. And it should be like it was in the beginning. The butterflies in stomach etc...
Me:39 W:36 S:12 D:9 T:14 M:11 Separation:sep. 1 2017 D filed oct. 2017 D finalized july 2018 OM confirmed feb 2018 D finalized July 2018
The fact is this. You have to be in pain before you can learn.