Gordie #15: closing the cake shop

[Gordie]

Sotto, pax, Andrew, job, roist, HaWho,

Thanks for the live time feedback. You are right. Venting:

Can’t discuss working on us if you are still in a R with OM2. Also can’t discuss us with a D filing hanging over my head.

You have no recognition of what you have done and no remorse. What’s happened can’t be swept under the carpet.

No, I don’t want to fake reconcile and just be back to the same in a few months or later with OM3.

I don’t want to be in a three way R and I don’t want to be your backup plan. If you were serious about working on us, then your actions would be different. You’d unilaterally cut off OM2, recognize the damage done, and “do anything” to reconnect with me. You don’t view your R with OM1 and OM2 as cheating, but I do and it has and does hurt me greatly.

Yes, I would love to save our M—you know that. But it’s not so simple any more. A lot of damage has been done. Vows were broken. Trust was broken. It would take a lot of hard work on both out parts to build a new M. And according to you, you’re not sure what you want. I need someone who “knows” in their heart that she wants me. And right now, you can’t say that.