waw maybe #2

[bhappy2]

Updating:

Nothing new as far as communication with W but she did say happy birthday yesterday. The kids bought me a new Iphone and I was very happy. They wanted to take me to dinner today but I was not up to it considering I went out with friends last night. Where we live the temps are really low and I just do not feel like going out in this weather.

My W is working pretty much every day because this is her busy season. I think this is a good thing so that I do not have to deal too much with her. I believe this may be the beginning of the end, on my end. I just do not know what to do at this point every time I think I want to just go file something hits me and I say just wait. It certainly is a roller coaster.

So some men I have talked to who have gone through this all say the same thing, keep your mouth shut and give her time. I can see now how pressuring her was completely wrong. I am no vet on here but boy every time I see a new post it looks just like mine when I first found this page.

Questions:
At this point do I bring up R talk?

I want her to pay her own cell phone bill, how do I ask her?

We have a huge party (her family) coming up soon she has yet to ask me to go, do I ask her about it? We have been talking about this event since before BD.