Tell her that as long as she is with someone else that is something you wouldn't even consider discussing and definitely won'twaste your time thinking about it now. End of discussion.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
