Hi Gordie,
Tough spot.

I have to agree with Sotto's statements above 100%.

Notice she hasn't taken ownership on her own yet. It's an if-then statement. And she's looking to you to take on the work... Will YOU work on our relationship?

I'm not sure the best way to respond, but just keep that perpective. Good luck.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16