So moving ahead with my plans to move out and basically NC with stbxw. She has stalled the d papers. When I do see her she tries to act like everything is normal and engages me in conversation and tries to touch me. I am kind and friendly but keep interaction short and avoid R talk. She has stopped evenings out and overnights but I know via the kids she is still in contact with OM2. So given my non responsiveness to text messages she now hand writes notes and leaves them for me where she knows I will see them.
Her latest: if I break up with OM2, will you work on our R? I want to talk to you.
Okay friends...feel like I’m not going to be able to ignore this. I haven’t said anything yet...so what do I say now?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
