New LBS dealing with WW Part 3

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Final thoughts on NC and DB. Things I learned whilst 12 stepping in Gamanon.

This is going to sound counter intuitive to you but these are the most loving caring things you can do.

No one can cause another to be or do anything, sure we can influence them. They have free will. Similarly we can't change them back to a stable soul.

We can provide an environment in which that can happen, DB and NC (amoung others) are such loving environments. We do these out of love for ourselves and our children, to set boundaries to show how we are to be treated. To encourage a loving environment for change.

So, fear not, these behaviours create the best environment for you and WW AND that is loving and compassionate.

V