Originally Posted By: sandi2
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I have to bebhonest, the advice ti let it go and just work yourself, while being the one I can implement in the long turm, seems like giving up.


Why does it feel like you are giving up? What can you do better?



Probably, looking for something to stop her alienating.
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You said you never gave her money. Do you mean before the breakup that you never gave her money for anything, or were you referring to after the breakup?



Before. She had to ask for me to give her money. When she needed to cover big expy, I always did, but she felt I forced her to ask instead of sharing.

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Currently, you are in panic mode. It wear you completely out and make you ill. These problems take time to work out. It usually takes much longer than you dreamed. Try to calm yourself.



Had a good Friday night with a friend and coule of cocktails.

So now it is Ok. In the morning I did not feel well.