LH, I think you misunderstand why I was upset. I am not expecting my STBXW to snap out of this. I was upset because she felt the need to start packing up stuff on Christmas morning for her move, RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE KIDS. I thought it was inconsiderate of her, like she couldn't let them have a peaceful Christmas morning without injecting the D into it. I was upset by her selfishness.

I do not believe Maika and J9 have had to go through in-house separation like I have. Call me a victim, but I think my sitch has been especially painful.

I've been seeing my IC on a bi-weekly or weekly basis since the beginning of may. I've read plenty of books. I've been skydiving twice. I've been exercising, attending a NGS meetup group, and working on myself. I have put in the work. I know I have more to do. Have you read my sitch from the beginning?

Right now I'm in a tunnel, and at the other end is my life after D. Getting out this tunnel is my goal at this point.

Originally Posted By: LH19
Also, learn to understand the difference between standing up to your W and antagonizing her. Like it or not she is going to be apart of your life for the foreseen future.


This is a fair point. This is on my list of things to work on.

I appreciate your feedback LH, even though I think you often misread me.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.