I wonder if men ever take their W's nagging seriously......b/c they joke about it, complain about it, ignore it, etc. Do they think it's just a component of the female and she can't help herself?
For me I was naive......getting D never crossed my mind because we had never talked about it. I just thought that all W's had complaints and this was just part of being married. OH boy did I learn! She tried to communicate to me the way she knew how but now I know that most women are not that direct.
That is why I am hopeful that my W will work through it.
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Whatever, I agree it is bad communication
The funny thing is I thought my W and I communicated well with each other
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If the W has brought it up once, then I would say to take it seriously. I mean, how many times do you think you need to tell someone before they begin to take you seriously?
Once is enough for me going forward . It won't happen again with this 1 or someone else in the future.
Naive I was but I was not a bad husband or father.