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I wonder if men ever take their W's nagging seriously......b/c they joke about it, complain about it, ignore it, etc. Do they think it's just a component of the female and she can't help herself?


For me I was naive......getting D never crossed my mind because we had never talked about it. I just thought that all W's had complaints and this was just part of being married. OH boy did I learn! She tried to communicate to me the way she knew how but now I know that most women are not that direct.

That is why I am hopeful that my W will work through it.

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Whatever, I agree it is bad communication


The funny thing is I thought my W and I communicated well with each other smile

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If the W has brought it up once, then I would say to take it seriously. I mean, how many times do you think you need to tell someone before they begin to take you seriously?


Once is enough for me going forward smile. It won't happen again with this 1 or someone else in the future.

Naive I was but I was not a bad husband or father.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018