Actually H could be replaced with W in the list. And some of the behaviours induce fear and who wants to live in fear?
Frankly it's about being an adult who takes responsibility for who they are. Makes a mistake and resolves it. Puts their spouse above all others, provides, loves and commits to their R above all else.
It's emotional maturity.
And looking after oneself physically and mentally, being fit for life.
For all your life.
Oh and great sex helps!
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW