Actually H could be replaced with W in the list. And some of the behaviours induce fear and who wants to live in fear?

Frankly it's about being an adult who takes responsibility for who they are. Makes a mistake and resolves it. Puts their spouse above all others, provides, loves and commits to their R above all else.

It's emotional maturity.

And looking after oneself physically and mentally, being fit for life.

For all your life.

Oh and great sex helps!

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW