Yes, I've certainly come to see that me 'thinking I know what's best for others' and guiding the decisions of others was actually me trying to control people around me. It is a useful thing to learn, because we are just seeing the world through our own lens, and others see it through theirs, so why should we know what may best suit them?

I live and let live much, much more now, and it is freeing...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus