I think we're going mediated on this. I will contact a lawyer that was recommended, but I REALLY want to avoid litigation. And of course I will have my lawyer read it over before final agreement, but hopefully all of the work will come from mediation, and the lawyer is just a sanity check.

She's the one who makes more money, but we're both fairly comfortable. Living singly is going be be rough, but we were very comfortable together.


Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s
M:11 T:13
S, D, both 7-10
BD : 11/2017
Separation : 1/18