Wonka is a "she". If the 2/14 thread is the last one that you've found, then that is probably her last thread. I don't recall her starting a new one after that...but I see so many people posting, however, if she had a new one, I probably would have linked her new/old threads together. She stops by from time to time to post not only to the posters on the MLC Forum, but also the Newcomers' and the Divorce Forums.
You can double check me on her threads by clicking on her name or changing your settings at the bottom on the left hand side to all years and then doing a search on her name...but I haven't seen Wonka around for a while.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
