Answer - I assume that it's normal that, when the W is angry, the H sleeps on the couch. Same thing with the master bathroom. Fighting would just make things worse.
We advise not to leave the MBR. She's the one that wants out of the M, she's the one that should be inconvenienced by that choice. Our attitude here is to tell her "you can sleep here in the bed with me or you can sleep in another room, that's your choice. But I'm continuing to sleep here." We're not saying to fight her about it, what's to fight about? Just hold your ground. The bed in the master bedroom is like the throne of the house, don't relinquish the throne to a WAS.
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Answer - One of Michele's programs said "If you've had an affair, you may need to keep apologizing." For my W, my use of porn feels like an affair. When I'm honest with myself, I'm disgusted that I let her down repeatedly and hurt her that deeply.
One genuine, heartfelt apology trumps 100 shallow "I'm sorry" apologies. If you've apologized to the point that you can say "she knows I'm really sorry" then there's no need to keep apologizing. Too many apologies can make you look weak and pathetic in her eyes.
