KML, there's nothing in my state except divorce. It's a very backwards state in my opinion. I like the idea of my husband and I each having our own lawyer plus a mediator but the only way that'd be an option for me right now is to either borrow $10 - 20 grand from a friend or to first get a job and save for it. As stated I also don't know how I can face my husband in mediation these next few weeks. There's no way I'm in a good enough mental state to get through this and fight for what I need.
Right now this is about business but at the end-of-the-day I need to move and get a new job in addition to getting support from my husband. I need to think a little more. I will definitely document everything. I will soon be physically away from my husband as soon as I move, divorce or no divorce.
