Christmas morning was fairly pleasant until she went into the entertainment cabinet and started sorting through DVDs she wanted to take to her apartment. I just don't understand why she had to do that on Christmas morning.
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Why on earth would you let that bother you? I know you think I am tough on you but I get frustrated when reading your posts. I am concerned you are not moving forward at all. Like your purpose in life is desperately hoping your W some how snaps out of this and then you go back to be in a cr@ppy marriage.
You came to the boards the same time as Maika and J9 and IMO they are miles ahead of you in the process. Other then a divorce care group what kind of self help are you doing? Are you exercising, reading, taking any classes, new hobbies?
Stop acting like a victim and roll up your sleeves and start doing some hard work to ensure that this never happens to you again in the future. Also, learn to understand the difference between standing up to your W and antagonizing her. Like it or not she is going to be apart of your life for the foreseen future.
