Been reading up on your sitch and I feel for you, man. Some similarities with my sitch is that we've both had multiple BDs and W has/is going through MLC. After most recent BD, my W has said "I want something different than this R". I took this as wanting to be with another man. But most recently has said "I want to be alone". With your W suggesting a granny suite and wanting a D, do you think she would pursue another relationship or stay alone?