Been reading up on your sitch and I feel for you, man. Some similarities with my sitch is that we've both had multiple BDs and W has/is going through MLC. After most recent BD, my W has said "I want something different than this R". I took this as wanting to be with another man. But most recently has said "I want to be alone". With your W suggesting a granny suite and wanting a D, do you think she would pursue another relationship or stay alone?


M: 42
W: 39
Married: 13 Together: 18
Kids:10,8
BD 1: 2/2013
Reconciled: 9/2013
BD 2: 10/2017
Separation from MH: 12/2017