While I understand what you say is very tru, I also see that the more time goes and the more space I give her, the more assured she seems in her decision. First weeks she was crying, showing she wants to hang out with me a bit. Now she becomes increasingly distant and reassured in her decision. I assume her EA/PA assists this behavior by a large margin, as she is not a woman that ever stayed alone for long.
Is that typical behavior for WaW?
Also, I as I have said, I want to rebuild trust. How can I d
Due to your emotional state, it is hard sometimes to stay grounded. So I say this with full sympathy to your situation.. Your W is not interested in saving your marriage at the moment. Nothing you 'think' will help turn her around will work. You need to let that sink in and understand it. Its hard but sadly its true.
You need to start the process of letting go and focusing on yourself.
The statement you have made (i.e. about giving her space) shows that you are not at the moment. You NEED to let it go. This is a long process. Mine was quick and it was 8 months of pure hell and understanding there was nothing I could do to get her back.
