Help needed from Far-east.

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If I choose to leave, it will suffer my daughter, she will know that me and my wife has a serious issue. Moreover, my culture is different than what you have in US, ,even we have a new family, we are still not indepentdent as we suppose to. I hope you understand. Both side of our family will want to get a detail of me moving out. Just tell them, we don’t love each other any more is unreasonable and doesn’t make enought sense to them. They will suspicious of the infidelity, which if they knew, things might get worse. May be she won’t be able to want to reconcile anymore because she lose face to the whole family and may be everyone else around too.

Don’t get me wrong. Not that I don’t want to follow your advice. I just want to clarify my situation before I go to the big step.