The holidays and my sitch have kept me away from the boards.

I've been dealing with legal issues and STBXW's impending move. Then mediation is coming up. I don't know that I have much to add to things.

On the issue of my kids getting STBXW a Christmas present, S15 informed me BIL bought something for her "from them", so that resolved itself. I gave her a small something. She took the kids shopping and they bought something for me. Christmas morning was fairly pleasant until she went into the entertainment cabinet and started sorting through DVDs she wanted to take to her apartment. I just don't understand why she had to do that on Christmas morning.

Oh, STBXW was shredding old financial papers and I asked her to stop since I wasn't comfortable with what she was doing. When I attempted to look at the papers she was shredding, she grabbed them from me and threatened to call the police. So there's that.

Maybe I can think of some more updates to post tomorrow.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.